Confidence is not only about an attitude, it is about believing in oneself and that is what requires the most to follow your dreams, to accomplish your plans and to achieve what you aspire. It is the basic requirement to be successful, but is often absent in women.
Here, we help you re-gain, build and live your confidence in few steps. Follow the points below:
- Strict No-No to Comparisons
The game of comparison is what we are addicted to and is what drains out our belief. You need to understand that you are one, having your own special skills and attributes. If you believe on your capabilities you can achieve it. Yes, it is always good to get inspired by others. But, perceiving oneself weak against others is just not fine!
- Is Anything Stopping You? Answer and Resolve
We all know the best of us as well as the worst of us. Find out what is stopping you, whether it’s just a thought, a situation or even a negative company, identify it and overcome it. In fact, identifying it alone will bring back your confidence. But, complete this task!
- Count your Strengths
Remind yourself that you worth it! Write and count your strength, dig deep into yourself, and go close to yourself. It may sound poetic, but confronting your strengths is all you need. Empower your strengths further and rely on them for your mission.
- Confront your fears too!
Not only strengths, we should also know our weaknesses, our fears, long before anyone else or any situation bangs them on our face. Identify them, find ways to fight with or escape them, and keep continuing.
- Let the Negative Air Bounce Back
You must learn to ignore and escape negativity without letting it touch you, even a bit. Because, negativity is just negativity, it is of no value for the missionaries and visionaries. Let people think and speak what they wish to, you carry out your endeavour. Success will be yours!
- Learn to Accept Defeat with Respect
A journey consists of numerous endeavours, turns and tasks. You may fail at some point, but you should remain focused at achieving the final success. Learn when you fail and earn when you win!
- Be Transparent to Yourself
You should know what and who you are. It may seem difficult, but it is the most simple and easiest step. Just accept yourself, be yourself and know yourself.
- Be Kind to Yourself
Last, but not the least! It is the most important aspect to be confident and hence, successful. We often become harsh to ourselves in the endeavours of achieving our targets. But, the success really demands you to be kind to yourself; it will be kind to you!